Give Yourself Permission To Do Something Unique and Meaningful To You

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I did something unique and meaningful to me and I can’t wait to share with you. lalitha.toast.masters - Copy

I made a decision to be a guest in “Art Of Speaking Toastmaster’s Club” (that I have never done) and had a clear intention of making it with my husband. We had no idea how it would turn out to be. What is it that motivated me? Following line in the Newspaper Ad motivated me to make the decision

“This will be a learn-by-doing workshop where participants hone their public speaking and leadership skills in a no pressure atmosphere.”

The event was scheduled on Saturday at that North Edison Library at 10.15 AM. My emotions of excitement masked me from even making it to the correct venue. We made it to the South Edison Library…da..

To my surprise, my hubby was cool and determined to make it the North Edison Library, even tho’ we were late. By the way the Librarian assured us that Toastmasters club is a very informal one and we shouldn’t be concerned about making it late as a guest.

Well, we entered the room that was full except for two seats in front. Feeling ashamed, I took my seat and so did my husband. At that time a Toastmaster was speaking about the company Apple, Inc and his concerns about its falling Share price. We had no idea what we were supposed to do. After his speech, he handed small chits of paper that we picked randomly to give a speech.

To my surprise, my husband, whom I perceive as a shy guy was the first one to volunteer. He took and read the chit which required him to speak impromptu about how he will handle the fall in Apple Inc’s Share price as a “Chief Operating Officer”

After watching a couple of other people give their impromptu speech, I volunteered.

Long story short I got the chit that read “Chief Financial Officer”. I was supposed to speak How I would address Apple, Inc’s falling share price as a Chief Financial Officer.

I was excited/feeling funny and silly about my capability to give an impromptu speech. I just did it anyway from the bottom of my heart being my authentic SELF.

Well, guess what?

We had Timers evaluating our time, Ah-Counter/Grammarian recording the use of unnecessary filler words such as “ah” “ums”/grammatical errors..

At the end, Presiding Officer Bob Austin announced Best Table Topics Speaker is Lalitha…

Vow, I was shocked and there you go! I came out with a happy face!!!!

You guessed it! Thats my picture above with “Best Table Topics™ Ribbon”

I researched the internet to learn about Table Topics Speaker AFTER the event.

You can read here a link from Toastmasters International website…>

http://www.toastmasters.org/Members/MemberExperience/MeetingRoles/TableTopicsSpeaker.aspx

Why am I sharing this story with you?

Well, may be you are underestimating your ability OR may be you are shy of taking that first step OR may be you think you are not good enough or too old or not well versed…whatever..

The point that I want to drive here is…

Just listen to your heart and take that first step, all others will be revealed to you..

Now it is your turn..,

Action Step

If you are inspired by my story, take that first step and share your story by clicking Comments section on the top of this post.

If you have already stepped out of your comfort zone and done something that is meaningful to you, I would love to read yours too!

How To Get Your Confused Mind To Make Clear Decisions In Your Life And Business?

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What is confusion?

Confusion is a state of being that can show up as disorder or upheaval or chaos.

What is clarity?

Clarity is the state of being clear, having freedom from ambiguity, having clearness as to perception or understanding.

Why is it important to transform confusion to clarity?

Every day we are required to make simple but powerful YES or NO decisions. Decision is an act of making up ones mind. It is the single act that can move you to next step in any thing you do. As you can see a chaotic confused mind can never make a decision. However, the moment you are clear about the status of a situation OR what to do, you can make a firm YES Or NO decision to address the situation OR to do the thing or not.

How to transform confusion to clarity?

1. Whenever you see disorder or feel confused, you tend to be afraid and avoid taking action. First notice and become AWARE that your confused mind cannot make a decision. Rarely do we take time to acknowledge, when we are in a state of confusion. The key here is to become AWARE and take responsibility for transforming confusion to clarity.

2. Take three deep breaths and say to yourself ” I am thankful for my awareness and choose to LET GO of the need to be in the state of confusion and ALLOW myself to step into a state of clarity by asking and answering empowering questions.”

3. Write down your answers to the following questions.
a) What is the one thing that I fear now that is stopping me from taking action?
b) What if this thing was not true OR is no longer important to me?
c) What is the ONE tiny action can I take now to move forward?

I personally use this method to transform confusion to clarity and have seen my clients liberate from fear of unknown and take inspired action towards their goal. Now I would like to know how you handle yourself when you are in a state of confusion.